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Being Mode, Doing Mode and Two Powerful Wolves

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Being Mode is where we make a change in our lives. A key aspect of mindfulness is stepping outside of doing mode and entering into being mode.

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When we’re caught up in thought and feeling cycles that lead to depression and anxiety, we usually feel that we should be doing something to fix it. The problem with this is that sometimes there is nothing you can do to fix a problem. Mindfulness is a way to escape this cycle of trying to fix things by simply focusing on our moment-to-moment experience. When we are doing this, we are in being mode. In being mode, we are not trying to fix anything. We are not trying to go anywhere. We are not trying to do anything. We are not trying, period. Trying is doing, and being mode isn’t about doing.

Being Mode and the Downstairs Brain

In being mode, we are free to enjoy our experiences from moment to moment by focusing on what our senses are telling us, rather than focusing on trying to find a way out of a problem. When the downstairs brain is engaged, and the upstairs brain is temporarily disconnected, moving into being mode allows us a little breathing room.

The way to move from doing mode to being mode is to shift our mental energy from thinking mode to sensing mode. Our brains only have a finite amount of energy to spend on any given task at any given time. If we have a stressful or depressing thought cycle going on, we can shift energy from what our thoughts are telling us by engaging our internal observer to start focusing on what our senses are telling us. As you read this paragraph, can you feel your breath going in and out of your lungs? Were you even aware you were breathing before you read the previous sentence? When caught up in thinking cycles, we’re focusing on the boomerang. But by shifting our attention to our direct experiences and focusing on what our senses are telling us, we’re able to move into sensing mode.

Sensing Mode: The Way to Being Mode

When in sensing mode, we are no longer giving energy to ruminating cycles that are leading us to states that we do not want to experience. We are able to move to sensing mode by focusing first on our breathing, then on our direct experiences of the current situation. We do this by using all of our senses, in the moment, to explore the environment around us. What do we hear? What do we see? What do we smell? What do we taste? What do we feel? By asking ourselves these questions, we are able to move into sensing mode.

Two Wolves: The Being Wolf

The more energy we spend on sensing, the less energy we have to spend on thinking. Based on the tale of two wolves, we could see the two wolves as “thinking wolf” and “sensing wolf.” The more energy you give to the sensing wolf, the less energy you give to the thinking wolf. The less energy the thinking wolf receives, the weaker the thinking wolf becomes. Conversely, the more energy the sensing wolf receives, the stronger the sensing wolf becomes. By shifting from thinking to sensing, you’re not trying to ‘kill’ the thinking wolf. You’re not engaging in doing by trying to make the thinking wolf go away. You’re simply depriving it of energy so that it may eventually go away on its own. Even if it doesn’t go away on its own, you’re not focusing your attention on it. Since your attention isn’t on it, thinking wolf can’t grab you by the throat, refusing to let go.

It could be said that focusing on what your senses are telling you is a type of thinking as well, and that is partially true; however, the difference is that focusing on what your senses are telling you is a type of thinking devoid of emotional content. If you’re in a thinking cycle that is causing you anxiety or depression, then anxiety and depression are emotions. But unless you hate trees for some reason, simply sitting quietly in a forest and observing a tree as if you are an artist about to draw that tree is an exercise devoid of emotional content. By focusing on the emotionally neutral stimuli found in nature, we give ourselves the opportunity to feed the sensing wolf.

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy and Being Mode

Mindfulness-based ecotherapy can be a powerful tool for facilitating being mode. By combining mindful awareness with direct engagement in natural environments, this approach gently redirects attention away from the habitual “doing mode,” which is dominated by planning, problem-solving, and ruminating.

Nature’s rhythms, such as the sound of leaves rustling, water flowing, or birds singing, provide sensory anchors that draw the mind into immediate experience. Through guided practices like mindful walking, focused breathing outdoors, or reflective observation of natural phenomena, we learn to notice thoughts and emotions without automatically reacting, creating space for a deeper sense of presence. Over time, repeated experiences of this mindful immersion in the environment can quiet your sympathetic nervous system, lower stress, and cultivate an enduring capacity to remain in being mode even outside of therapeutic sessions.

References

Ilomäki M, Lindblom J, Salmela V, Flykt M, Vänskä M, Salmi J, Tolonen T, Alho K, Punamäki RL, Wikman P. Early life stress is associated with the default mode and fronto-limbic network connectivity among young adults. Front Behav Neurosci. 2022 Sep 23;16:958580. doi: 10.3389/fnbeh.2022.958580. PMID: 36212193; PMCID: PMC9537946.

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Upstairs Brain vs. Downstairs Brain

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Feelings of depression, anxiety, sadness, and other emotions are generated in a part of the brain called the limbic system. This ‘downstairs’ portion of the brain is only interested in three things: Fighting, fleeing, or freezing. In ‘fight’ mode, the downstairs brain wants to protect you from harm by fighting against the threat. When it is triggered, your heart may race, your palms may get sweaty, and you may have a sharp increase in irritability and anger. In ‘flee’ mode, you may experience a similar adrenaline rush, but in this instance, your brain is preparing your body to run away from the danger. In ‘freeze’ mode, we tend to retreat inside ourselves. This is the deer-in-the-headlights feeling of “If I’m very quiet and still, the bad thing won’t see me.”

How the Upstairs Brain Interacts with the Downstairs Brain

Whether you’re in fight, flee, or freeze mode, your downstairs brain is preparing you to deal with a real or perceived threat in the only way it knows how. When your downstairs brain is engaged, the upstairs part of your brain tends to get overwhelmed. The upstairs brain, which consists of the neocortex of the brain, is the part responsible for thinking things through, figuring things out, and solving problems. When the downstairs brain takes over, the upstairs brain is out to lunch. That’s why when you’re emotionally overwhelmed, it is nearly impossible to figure out a way to deal with it. The upstairs brain is all about finding solutions to problems, but the downstairs brain is all about fighting, fleeing, or freezing. When your upstairs brain is overwhelmed, thinking things over isn’t going to work. That’s because at that point, your downstairs brain is in charge. For those times when your downstairs brain is running the show, mindfulness is a way of disengaging from the thinking cycle for a while so that you can re-center yourself and reconnect with yourself and the world around you.

How Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy Supports the Upstairs Brain, the Downstairs Brain, and a Calmer Nervous System

The “upstairs brain vs. downstairs brain” model offers a simple way to understand how our minds react to stress. The “downstairs brain” refers to evolutionarily older structures such as the amygdala, brain stem, and limbic regions. These areas handle survival instincts, fight-or-flight responses, and quick emotional reactions. The “upstairs brain” includes the prefrontal cortex and other regions responsible for reasoning, emotional regulation, empathy, and long-term decision-making. In moments of stress, the sympathetic nervous system activates the downstairs brain, often overwhelming the upstairs brain’s ability to respond calmly. This imbalance can lead to impulsive reactions, emotional flooding, or a sense of being perpetually on edge.

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy: A Practical Solution

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy offers a practical, grounded way to restore balance between these two systems. By integrating mindfulness practices with nature-based experiences, it supports regulation of the sympathetic nervous system while strengthening the upstairs brain’s capacity to stay engaged even during difficult moments.

One of the most powerful aspects of nature-based mindfulness is how quickly it downshifts the nervous system. Being outdoors, or even visualizing natural environments, has been shown to reduce sympathetic arousal and increase activity in the parasympathetic system. This shift creates the physiological conditions necessary for the upstairs brain to come back online. When the body stops signaling danger, the prefrontal cortex is freed to resume its role in planning, reflection, and problem-solving. Mindfulness in nature makes this transition smoother by encouraging sensory awareness, present-moment attention, and slower breathing, each of which directly supports parasympathetic activation.

How Mindfulness Trains Attention

Another key component is how mindfulness trains attention. The downstairs brain often hijacks the mind by pulling attention toward perceived threats. Mindfulness practice teaches individuals to notice this pull without automatically following it. In ecotherapy, this awareness is supported by grounding elements: the texture of tree bark, the rhythm of waves, and the sound of wind through leaves. These sensory anchors provide a natural counterweight to the internal storm generated by the sympathetic nervous system. Over time, this helps strengthen neural pathways associated with emotional regulation, making it easier for the upstairs brain to remain active even when the downstairs brain fires up.

Interoceptive Literacy and the Upstairs Brain

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy also promotes what some therapists refer to as “interoceptive literacy,” the ability to recognize and interpret internal body signals. A dysregulated sympathetic system often produces sensations such as a tight chest, rapid heartbeat, or restlessness. When people learn to identify these early cues without judgment, they gain a moment of choice. This pause allows the upstairs brain to intervene before the downstairs brain drives behavior. Practices like mindful walking, breath-based grounding, or observing natural cycles help individuals connect more deeply with these signals in a supportive, non-threatening environment.

Emotional Processing and the Upstairs Brain

Nature-based mindfulness also supports emotional processing. The downstairs brain often stores unresolved emotional material that surfaces during stress. Natural environments provide a calming backdrop for working through these experiences without becoming overwhelmed. The sense of spaciousness and the absence of artificial stimuli reduce cognitive load, giving the upstairs brain more bandwidth to integrate emotional information. This creates a more flexible, resilient nervous system that can adapt to challenges rather than reacting automatically.

Connectedness and the Upstairs Brain

Finally, Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy strengthens the sense of connectedness that is crucial for nervous system regulation. Feelings of isolation can intensify sympathetic activation, while experiences of belonging and connection activate systems of safety and social engagement. Ecotherapy offers a double form of connection: with nature and with one’s own internal experience. This sense of being part of something larger reduces the perception of threat and supports long-term regulation of both the upstairs and downstairs brain.

In this way, Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy provides a holistic path to balancing instinctive emotional responses with thoughtful, grounded awareness. By soothing the sympathetic nervous system and strengthening the upstairs brain, it helps people respond to life’s challenges with clarity, resilience, and a greater sense of peace.

References

Jo H, Song C, Miyazaki Y. Physiological Benefits of Viewing Nature: A Systematic Review of Indoor Experiments. Int J Environ Res Public Health. 2019 Nov 27;16(23):4739. doi: 10.3390/ijerph16234739. PMID: 31783531; PMCID: PMC6926748.

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