Year: 2025

Why leave the AAMFT? As a Marriage and Family Therapist (MFT), being part of a professional organization is essential to maintaining professional standards, receiving ongoing education, and accessing support resources. For years, I was a loyal member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT). It’s a respected organization that provides a wide range of resources for therapists.

However, over time, I became increasingly frustrated with the rising membership fees and the declining value of the services and benefits offered. Today, I attempted to renew my membership. Their website crashed. I called the tech support number that I found after great difficulty. They had it well-hidden on the site. After being put on hold for over an hour I was informed that no representatives were available to accept my call, and they hung up on me. They could’ve told me that before I waited on the phone for an hour.

After much consideration, I made the decision to leave AAMFT and join the American Counseling Association (ACA) instead. Here’s why I made that change, and why I believe other therapists might want to consider the same.

AAMFT Rising Membership Fees with Fewer Benefits

One of the biggest factors that led me to leave AAMFT was the consistently increasing membership fees. Each year, it seemed that the cost of being a member rose, while the value I received in return steadily diminished. I am and have been a member of multiple professional organizations in my professional career, and none have higher membership fees with fewer benefits. When I first joined AAMFT, I appreciated the resources, networking opportunities, and professional support. But as time went on, I noticed that many of the services I once found valuable were no longer being offered—or were being offered in a more limited capacity.

While the cost of membership continued to climb, the actual benefits I received in return seemed to be shrinking. The number of workshops, seminars, and continuing education opportunities that were once included or offered at a discount became fewer and less relevant to my practice. Access to industry-specific research also became more difficult, as more AAMFT content was locked behind additional paywalls.

I felt like I was paying more for less. As a professional who prides myself on providing high-quality care to my clients and staying informed about the latest developments in marriage and family therapy, this diminishing return on investment was frustrating. It became clear that AAMFT was not meeting my needs as it once had.

AAMFT’s Lack of Relevant Resources

Over time, I also began to notice that the resources offered by AAMFT felt increasingly irrelevant to my practice. The workshops and conferences offered by the organization didn’t align with the direction I wanted my career to go in. As a therapist focusing on mindfulness-based therapy, I found that AAMFT was often slow to embrace emerging therapeutic approaches or newer methodologies in the field. Much of the research published in the AAMFT journal seemed focused on self-care for therapists rather than on patient care. While self-care is important, patient care is at least as important as therapist self-care.

Furthermore, I was increasingly frustrated by the limited scope of networking opportunities with other professionals. As an MFT, much of my work intersects with the practices of other types of counselors, social workers, and psychologists. However, AAMFT’s narrow focus on marriage and family therapy left me feeling disconnected from a broader professional community. While COVID-19 had an impact on face-to-face networking opportunities, teleconferencing remained an option. Unfortunately, it was an option that AAMFT was slow to embrace when it comes to networking with mental health professionals who are not Marriage and Family Therapists.

Why I Chose the American Counseling Association (ACA)

After years of growing dissatisfaction with the AAMFT, I began researching other organizations that could better support my practice. That’s when I discovered the American Counseling Association (ACA). The ACA provides resources for a wide variety of mental health professionals, including Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), and other types of therapists. What initially attracted me to the ACA was its inclusive approach and commitment to supporting diverse therapeutic practices.

The ACA offers a wider variety of resources and professional development opportunities that are relevant to my current practice. From advanced certifications in specialized therapeutic techniques like mindfulness and ecotherapy to discounts on continuing education courses, the ACA provides far more comprehensive and varied benefits than AAMFT has done in recent years.

Another key factor in my decision to switch was the membership fees. The ACA offers competitive pricing for its membership, and I found that the benefits far outweighed the cost. As a member, I have access to exclusive webinars, workshops, and training opportunities, many of which align directly with the areas I want to grow in, such as mindfulness-based counseling and ecotherapy.

Networking and Professional Community

One of the most valuable aspects of joining the ACA is the opportunity to network with a wider range of mental health professionals. The ACA’s emphasis on a holistic view of therapy allows me to interact with counselors who specialize in everything from trauma-informed therapy to addiction counseling, and many other areas that complement my own expertise. This diversity of perspectives helps me grow as a therapist and expand my understanding of the various therapeutic methods that work for clients.

Moreover, the ACA offers several state chapters and interest networks that allow me to connect with local professionals who share similar interests or practice areas. This has helped me build meaningful relationships and expand my referral network, which was something I was struggling to achieve through AAMFT.

Final Thoughts

Leaving the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT) was not an easy decision, as I’ve always respected the work the organization has done for our profession. However, as time passed, I realized that the increasing membership fees and the diminishing value of their services no longer aligned with my professional goals, and AAMFT leadership has been slow to respond if they bothered to respond at all. By joining the American Counseling Association (ACA), I’ve found a more inclusive, relevant, and supportive community for my work as a therapist.

If you’re an MFT or counselor considering which professional organization best suits your needs, I strongly encourage you to look into the ACA. With its comprehensive resources, professional development opportunities, and more affordable membership fees, it has been a game-changer for my practice.

The right professional organization can make all the difference in your career and for your patients/clients. For me, the ACA has become the resource I was searching for.

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