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Water Meditation: Using Rivers, Lakes, and Oceans for Emotional Healing

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Water has long been a symbol of purification, transformation, and renewal across cultures and spiritual traditions. Whether it is the gentle flow of a stream, the still surface of a lake, or the powerful rhythm of ocean waves, water meditation invites us into deeper states of presence and introspection. Through the practice of water meditation, we can harness the calming and restorative power of natural water bodies to support emotional healing and psychological resilience.

This practice is a core element of Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy, which integrates mindfulness with immersive nature experiences. When combined, mindfulness and water-based nature therapy offer a profoundly grounding, sensory-rich way to process grief, soothe anxiety, release emotional tension, and reconnect with the self.

The Emotional Symbolism of Water

Water is a natural metaphor for human emotion. Like water, our feelings rise and fall, crash and calm, stagnate or flow. In many indigenous and psychological traditions, water is associated with the emotional body, the subconscious, and the process of letting go. Sitting by water or immersing oneself in it while practicing water meditation helps us attune to the fluid nature of emotion, inviting awareness, acceptance, and movement where there was once constriction or stuckness.

Spending time near or in water has measurable benefits for emotional well-being. Research shows that blue spaces, or environments in or around natural water, are associated with reduced stress and improved mood (White et al., 2020). Simply being near water can lower heart rate, decrease anxiety, and support emotional regulation. This is one of the reasons water meditation is so beneficial.

How Water Meditation Supports Emotional Healing

1. Promotes Emotional Flow and Release

Stagnant emotions such as unresolved grief, anger, or shame can weigh heavily on the mind and body. Water meditation encourages emotional flow by providing a sensory-rich, symbolic space in which feelings can be acknowledged and released.

Sitting near a river or stream, for example, invites the mind to follow the current and visualize emotions flowing downstream, letting go of pain with each breath.

2. Encourages Mindful Presence

The rhythmic qualities of water lapping waves, trickling brooks, or crashing surf naturally draw attention to the present moment. This kind of environmental mindfulness reduces rumination and helps calm the nervous system, allowing deeper access to the emotional self.

According to Kabat-Zinn (1990), mindfulness is the act of paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment, and without judgment. Water’s gentle presence supports this kind of attention by offering a soothing focal point.

3. Offers a Safe Space for Reflection

Water often creates a boundary between the outer and inner world, offering quiet, reflective spaces where we can slow down and listen inwardly. Lakeshores and tide pools provide places of stillness, ideal for introspective healing and journaling. Oceans offer the vastness to hold big emotions, helping people feel part of something greater.

For people coping with trauma, heartbreak, or emotional overwhelm, these quiet “blue sanctuaries” can serve as safe containers to process difficult feelings without judgment or interruption.

4. Enhances Somatic Awareness

Water engages the body as well as the mind. Feeling cool waves against the skin, dipping toes in a stream, or listening to the gurgle of a brook encourages embodiment—the practice of being fully present in the body. This helps individuals become aware of where they hold tension or emotion, and gently release it.

Somatic-based therapies often use this approach to help people access and express feelings stored in the body (Van der Kolk, 2014). Water meditation, especially when practiced with touch, supports this healing pathway.

How to Practice Water Meditation

You don’t need to live near the ocean to practice water meditation. Lakes, rivers, fountains, or even a bowl of water at home can be effective. The key is intention and presence.

River Release Meditation (for Letting Go)

  1. Sit beside a flowing river or stream.
  2. Close your eyes and take several deep breaths.
  3. Visualize placing your emotional pain on leaves or petals and letting them float down the current.
  4. With each exhale, imagine releasing part of your burden into the moving water.
  5. Continue for 10–20 minutes, allowing the river to carry your pain away.

Ocean Breath Practice (for Soothing Anxiety)

  1. Sit facing the ocean (or listen to ocean wave recordings if you’re at home).
  2. Match your breath to the rhythm of the waves: inhale as a wave comes in, exhale as it retreats.
  3. Focus on the sound and motion, allowing tension to wash out with each outbreath.
  4. Let the ocean’s vastness hold your worries.

Still Water Reflection (for Self-Compassion)

  1. Find a calm body of water (lake, pond, tide pool).
  2. Gaze at your reflection without judgment.
  3. Silently repeat phrases such as, “May I be gentle with myself,” or “I am allowed to feel this.”
  4. Let the stillness of the water help calm your mind and soften your heart.

The Science Behind Blue Mind

Marine biologist Dr. Wallace J. Nichols coined the term “Blue Mind” to describe the mildly meditative state we enter when near water. According to Nichols (2014), exposure to water triggers a neurological response that increases dopamine, lowers cortisol, and stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system—supporting emotional regulation and creativity.

“Being near water,” Nichols writes, “can make us happier, healthier, more connected, and better at what we do.”

Final Thoughts

Emotional healing is rarely linear or easy. It often requires time, space, and patience. Water meditation offers a compassionate, sensory-rich environment where this healing can unfold naturally. Whether you are grieving a loss, managing anxiety, or simply feeling emotionally heavy, the rivers, lakes, and oceans offer a timeless sanctuary for reflection and release.

Nature doesn’t rush. Neither does healing. By sitting with water, we are reminded to flow—gently, courageously, and with self-compassion—toward our emotional freedom.

References

Kabat-Zinn, J. (1990). Full catastrophe living: Using the wisdom of your body and mind to face stress, pain, and illness. Delacorte Press.

Nichols, W. J. (2014). Blue mind: The surprising science that shows how being near, in, on, or under water can make you happier, healthier, more connected, and better at what you do. Little, Brown Spark.

Van der Kolk, B. (2014). The body keeps the score: Brain, mind, and body in the healing of trauma. Viking.

White, M. P., Elliott, L. R., Gascon, M., Roberts, B., & Fleming, L. E. (2020). Blue space, health and well-being: A narrative overview and synthesis of potential benefits. Environmental Research, 191, 110169. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.envres.2020.110169

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The Adverse Childhood Experiences Study and Mental and Physical Health

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The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) Study is a groundbreaking research project that has transformed our understanding of how early-life trauma impacts long-term health. Conducted by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and Kaiser Permanente, the study revealed a strong correlation between childhood adversity and a wide array of mental and physical health issues in adulthood. This blog explores the ACEs Study, its implications for health, and how Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy (MBE) can offer a pathway to healing.

What is the ACEs Study?

The ACEs Study evaluates the impact of adverse experiences during childhood, such as abuse, neglect, and household dysfunction. Participants answer questions across ten categories:

  1. Physical abuse
  2. Emotional abuse
  3. Sexual abuse
  4. Physical neglect
  5. Emotional neglect
  6. Parental separation or divorce
  7. Household substance abuse
  8. Household mental illness
  9. Domestic violence
  10. Incarcerated household member

Each positive response counts as one ACE. Higher ACE scores correlate with increased risks of health challenges such as depression, anxiety, chronic diseases, and even early death.

ACEs Survey:

  1. Did a parent or other adult in your household often or very often… swear at you, insult you, put you down, or humiliate you? Or act in a way that made you afraid you might be physically hurt?
  2. Did a parent or other adult in your household often or very often… push, grab, slap, or throw something at you? Or ever hit you so hard that you had marks or were injured?
  3. Did an adult or person at least 5 years older than you ever… touch or fondle you in a sexual way? Or have you touch their body in a sexual way? Or attempt or actually have oral, anal, or vaginal intercourse with you?
  4. Did you often or very often feel that… no one in your family loved you or thought you were important or special? Or your family didn’t look out for each other, feel close to each other, or support each other?
  5. Did you often or very often feel that… you didn’t have enough to eat, had to wear dirty clothes, and had no one to protect you? Or your parents were too drunk or high to take care of you or take you to the doctor if you needed it?
  6. Were your parents ever separated or divorced?
  7. Was your mother or stepmother: Often or very often pushed, grabbed, slapped, or had something thrown at her? Or sometimes, often, or very often kicked, bitten, hit with a fist, or hit with something hard? Or ever repeatedly hit over at least a few minutes or threatened with a gun or knife?
  8. Did you live with anyone who was a problem drinker or alcoholic or who used street drugs?
  9. Was a household member depressed or mentally ill, or did a household member attempt suicide?
  10. Did a household member go to prison?
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Impacts of ACEs on Health

The ACEs Study uncovered that individuals with higher ACE scores are at greater risk for the following:

  • Mental Health Issues: Depression, anxiety, PTSD, and suicidal ideation are common among those with high ACE scores.
  • Physical Health Problems: Chronic diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, and autoimmune disorders are more prevalent in those with childhood trauma.
  • Behavioral Challenges: Increased likelihood of substance abuse, risky behaviors, and difficulty forming healthy relationships.
  • Shortened Lifespan: Studies indicate a reduced life expectancy of up to 20 years for those with the highest ACE scores.

Healing Through Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy (MBE) is a therapeutic approach that combines mindfulness practices with nature-based activities. It is particularly effective for individuals recovering from childhood trauma and attachment disorders. Here’s how MBE can help:

1. Rebuilding Secure Attachments

ACEs often disrupt the ability to form secure relationships. MBE includes exercises like grounding and mindful observation in natural settings, fostering a sense of safety and connection. These practices encourage individuals to rebuild trust—both in themselves and in their environment.

2. Managing Stress and Anxiety

MBE techniques such as mindful breathing, walking meditations, and sensory awareness exercises help regulate the nervous system. These activities mitigate the hyperarousal and emotional dysregulation common in individuals with high ACE scores.

3. Fostering Resilience

By engaging in eco-art activities like sandtray therapy or nature journaling, participants can explore their trauma narratives in a non-threatening way. These creative outlets enable them to reframe their experiences, cultivating resilience and empowerment.

4. Improving Physical Health

Spending time in nature has been shown to lower blood pressure, reduce inflammation, and improve overall physical health. The incorporation of mindfulness enhances these benefits by reducing chronic stress, a key factor linking ACEs to poor health outcomes.

5. Encouraging Emotional Regulation

Nature-based mindfulness exercises encourage individuals to stay present and process emotions as they arise. Over time, these practices strengthen emotional regulation skills, reducing symptoms of PTSD and anxiety.

Conclusion

The ACEs Study has provided invaluable insights into how childhood adversity impacts health across the lifespan. While the effects of high ACE scores can be profound, healing is possible. Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy offers a holistic approach to addressing trauma, fostering resilience, and improving both mental and physical health. By integrating mindfulness practices with the healing power of nature, MBE provides a pathway for individuals to reclaim their well-being and build a brighter future.

If you or someone you know has experienced childhood trauma, consider exploring Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy as a powerful tool for healing and growth.

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Overcome the Top 10 Mental Disorders with Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy

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The top ten mental disorders are health challenges that are a growing concern worldwide, with millions of individuals affected by them. While traditional therapies are highly effective, incorporating mindfulness-based ecotherapy (MBE) offers a unique, nature-centered approach to enhancing mental health. This post explores the top ten mental disorders and how MBE can play a transformative role in treatment.

1. Anxiety Disorders

By far the number one type of mental disorder, anxiety disorders, including generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), social anxiety, and panic disorders, affect over 40 million adults in the United States annually. These conditions manifest as excessive worry, fear, and physical symptoms like a racing heart.

How MBE Helps:
Mindfulness-based ecotherapy encourages grounding techniques and exposure to nature, which reduces anxiety. Activities like forest bathing and mindful walking help regulate breathing and calm the mind.

2. Depression

Depression, the number two most common mental disorder, is characterized by persistent sadness, fatigue, and loss of interest in activities. Depression is a leading cause of disability worldwide.

How MBE Helps:
Being in natural settings stimulates the production of serotonin and dopamine, hormones responsible for mood regulation. Mental disorders like depression are caused by a deficit of these hormones. Nature-based mindfulness exercises promote a sense of connection and purpose, alleviating depressive symptoms.

3. Bipolar Disorder

Bipolar disorder involves dramatic shifts in mood, energy, and activity levels, alternating between manic and depressive episodes. In many cases, bipolar disorder is a debilitating mental disorder unless properly treated.

How MBE Helps:
Mindfulness techniques in natural settings help individuals recognize early signs of mood shifts. Practicing eco-art therapy, such as creating mandalas from natural materials, fosters emotional stability and self-expression.

4. Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

OCD is marked by intrusive thoughts and repetitive behaviors. People with OCD often struggle with stress and perfectionism.

How MBE Helps:
Mindfulness practices encourage acceptance of intrusive thoughts without judgment. Ecotherapy activities like gardening promote a healthy focus and reduce compulsive tendencies.

5. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

PTSD develops after exposure to traumatic events, leading to flashbacks, nightmares, and heightened anxiety.

How MBE Helps:
Nature therapy provides a safe space to process trauma. Techniques, like guided mindfulness meditations in calming natural environments, reduce hyperarousal and promote a sense of safety.

6. Eating Disorders

Conditions such as anorexia, bulimia, and binge eating disorder stem from unhealthy relationships with food and body image.

How MBE Helps:
Practicing mindfulness outdoors encourages body positivity and self-compassion. Mindful eating exercises, such as savoring natural foods during picnics, reconnect individuals with the joy of nourishment.

7. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

ADHD affects attention, impulsivity, and hyperactivity, making it difficult for individuals to focus or stay organized.

How MBE Helps:
Nature-based activities help improve focus and reduce overstimulation. Structured outdoor games that require attention and teamwork can enhance cognitive skills in children and adults with ADHD.

8. Substance Use Disorders

Substance use disorders involve dependence on drugs or alcohol, often as a coping mechanism for underlying mental health issues.

How MBE Helps:
Ecotherapy provides alternative coping strategies by fostering resilience and emotional regulation. Activities like hiking and journaling in nature aid in recovery by building self-worth and creating healthier routines.

9. Schizophrenia

Schizophrenia is a severe mental disorder involving hallucinations, delusions, and disorganized thinking.

How MBE Helps:
While not a replacement for medical treatment, mindfulness in nature can help reduce stress and improve social interactions. Ecotherapy sessions in group settings encourage connection and reduce isolation.

10. Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

BPD is characterized by emotional instability, fear of abandonment, and difficulty maintaining relationships.

How MBE Helps:
Mindfulness-based ecotherapy helps individuals with BPD develop emotional regulation skills. Mindful observation of nature, such as watching flowing water, mirrors the process of letting emotions pass without acting on them.

Why Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy Works

MBE integrates mindfulness with ecotherapy principles, promoting healing through nature’s therapeutic power. Key benefits include:

  • Stress Reduction: Time in nature lowers cortisol levels.
  • Enhanced Mood: Natural environments boost serotonin production.
  • Improved Focus: Mindfulness practices foster attention and clarity.
  • Community Connection: Group ecotherapy fosters support and reduces loneliness.

Incorporating MBE into Mental Health Treatment

Mindfulness-based ecotherapy complements traditional therapies and can be tailored to individual needs. Simple practices include:

  • Mindful Breathing in Nature: Focus on your breath while surrounded by trees.
  • Eco-Art Therapy: Use natural materials to create expressive art.
  • Nature Journaling: Reflect on feelings while observing your environment.
  • Forest Bathing: Immerse yourself in the sights and sounds of a forest.

Conclusion

The challenges posed by mental disorders require innovative and holistic approaches to treatment. Mindfulness-based ecotherapy offers a bridge between modern therapy and nature’s timeless wisdom, providing tools for healing, connection, and personal growth.

By integrating MBE into mental health care, individuals can rediscover balance, resilience, and a renewed sense of purpose. Explore this transformative approach to see how it can improve mental health and well-being.

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What is Ecotherapy?

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Ecotherapy

For most of its existence, homo sapiens has lived in harmony with nature as hunter/gatherers. Such a lifestyle requires a vast knowledge of the seasons, and of the patterns and habits of wildlife, and of plants and herbs and their healing powers. Industrialization and urbanization are fairly recent phenomena on an evolutionary scale. We still carry the genetic memory of our ancestors who lived in untamed nature. Our brains are wired for the outdoors and nature. A growing body of research demonstrates that not only do we feel better when we make time for nature, but it is also actually a requirement for good physical and mental health!

Ecopsychology and Ecotherapy

The field of ecopsychology studies how humans interact with nature. Ecopsychology is a philosophy combining elements of psychology and ecology. It is the philosophy that mental health is contingent upon the health of the environment. Humankind and the environment are part of an interrelated system. We are not separate from nature. We are a part of nature.

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Ecopsychology suggests that there is a synergistic relation between planetary and personal well-being; that the needs of the one are relevant to the needs of the other. In short, what we do to the environment, we do to ourselves. Ecotherapy is the practical application of this knowledge. In ecotherapy, nature is the “therapist.” In practicing the techniques of ecotherapy, we allow the healing power of nature to work its magic on us. Hölzel et al (2011) demonstrated that meditative states of mindfulness stimulate neural growth in the cerebral cortex in the areas of the brain responsible for emotional regulation, good judgment, insight, and impulse control. Nature experiences have been demonstrated in several studies to produce meditative states (fascination, relaxation, and mindfulness).

Ecotherapy: Natural Experiences with Nature

Experiences in and with nature, or natural experiences, are ways in which we consciously choose to allow nature to work its healing magic on us. Some types of natural experiences include:

Facilitated Wilderness Experiences

In these types of experiences, a trained facilitator takes you into the woods for an adventure. These events can be anything from a wilderness experience in ecotherapy led by a therapist or counselor to a hunting trip led by a wilderness guide. Kuo & Taylor (2004) demonstrated that therapy and other activities conducted in outdoor settings reduced symptoms of Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. Whittington (2006) found that wilderness skills training gave adolescent girls increased self-esteem and self-confidence and helped to shatter gender stereotypes.

Animal-Assisted Therapy

Animal therapy in the form of contact with pets and/or wild or domesticated animals enhances self-actualization and can lessen symptoms of depression. Antonioli & Reveley (2005) found that simply swimming with dolphins can greatly reduce symptoms of depression. Other studies have shown that owning pets, or even just watching fish in an aquarium, can greatly reduce stress. Equine Therapy uses horses to facilitate mental and physical well-being. There are many other ways that animals can help us lead happier lives, as any pet owner can tell you!

Therapeutic Gardens

Sempik & Spurgeon (2006) demonstrated that therapeutic gardening reduces stress and lessens symptoms of depression. Blair (2009) discovered that gardening can be used as a means of helping school children to enhance self-sufficiency, social identity, meaning, and self-integration. There’s just something very healing about planting something and nurturing it as you watch it grow.

Vacations

Berto (2014) discovered that outdoor activities reduce stress and restore energy. If you’ve ever had to miss a vacation, you’re probably painfully aware of the regenerative power of taking a week or so off to spend time in nature. Cole (2012) found that you don’t need a facilitator or guide to enjoy health and well-being benefits from the use of wilderness areas. There’s a reason we’re attracted to beaches and national parks!

Architecture Incorporating Natural Spaces

Nature can be incorporated into the home environment through the use of plants, an aquarium, or even recorded nature sounds. Alvarsson et al (2010) studied the positive mental health effects of listening to nature sounds.

Outdoor Classrooms

Dennis, Wells & Bishop (2014) revealed that outdoor classrooms enhanced many critical factors of the educational experience, including: Enhanced retention, better focus, more attention to detail, less hyperactivity, more relaxation, increased confidence and self-esteem, and better cognitive functioning

Why Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy?

Mindfulness-based ecotherapy (MBE) enhances traditional ecotherapy by combining the restorative benefits of nature with the self-regulation and awareness skills cultivated through mindfulness practices. Ecotherapy alone has been shown to reduce stress, improve mood, and increase feelings of connectedness to the natural environment (Berto, 2014).

By integrating mindfulness, participants are encouraged to attend fully to present-moment sensory experiences within natural settings, which can deepen emotional processing, reduce rumination, and amplify psychological restoration (Kabat-Zinn, 2003). This combination strengthens the therapeutic impact, particularly for individuals prone to anxiety or depression, by not only providing exposure to nature but also fostering intentional engagement with it. Mindfulness enhances attentional control, allowing participants to notice subtle natural cues, reflect without judgment, and cultivate a sense of grounded presence, thereby making ecotherapy sessions more effective and transformative (Berto, 2014; Kabat-Zinn, 2003).

References

Alvarsson JJ, Wiens S, Nilsson ME. Stress recovery during exposure to nature sound and environmental noise. Int J Environ Res Public Health. 2010 Mar;7(3):1036-46. doi: 10.3390/ijerph7031036. Epub 2010 Mar 11. PMID: 20617017; PMCID: PMC2872309.

Antonioli C, Reveley MA. Randomised controlled trial of animal facilitated therapy with dolphins in the treatment of depression. BMJ. 2005 Nov 26;331(7527):1231. doi: 10.1136/bmj.331.7527.1231. PMID: 16308382; PMCID: PMC1289317.

Berto, R. (2014). The role of nature in coping with psycho-physiological stress: A literature review on restorativeness. Behavioral Sciences, 4(4), 394–409. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs4040394

Blair, D. (2009). The child in the garden: An evaluative review of the benefits of school gardening. Journal of Environmental Education, 40(2), 15–38.

Cole, D. N. (2012). Wilderness visitor experiences: A selective review of 50 years of research. Park Science, 28(3), Winter 2011‑2012. https://www.fs.usda.gov/rm/pubs_other/rmrs_2012_cole_d001.pdf

Dennis, S. F., Wells, A., & Bishop, C. (2014). A post-occupancy study of nature-based outdoor classrooms in early childhood education. Children, Youth and Environments, 24(2). https://doi.org/10.7721/chilyoutenvi.24.2.0035

Fieldhouse J, Sempik J. ‘Gardening without Borders’: Reflections on the Results of a Survey of Practitioners of an ‘Unstructured’ Profession. British Journal of Occupational Therapy. 2007;70(10):449-453. doi:10.1177/030802260707001006

Hölzel BK, Carmody J, Vangel M, Congleton C, Yerramsetti SM, Gard T, Lazar SW. Mindfulness practice leads to increases in regional brain gray matter density. Psychiatry Res. 2011 Jan 30;191(1):36-43. doi: 10.1016/j.pscychresns.2010.08.006. Epub 2010 Nov 10. PMID: 21071182; PMCID: PMC3004979.

Kabat-Zinn, J. (2003). Mindfulness-based interventions in context: Past, present, and future. Clinical Psychology: Science and Practice, 10(2), 144–156. https://doi.org/10.1093/clipsy/bpg016

Taylor AF, Kuo FE. Children with attention deficits concentrate better after walk in the park. J Atten Disord. 2009 Mar;12(5):402-9. doi: 10.1177/1087054708323000. Epub 2008 Aug 25. PMID: 18725656.



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Sensing Wolf and Thinking Wolf: An Empowering Tale of 2 Wolves

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An old Grandfather said to his grandson, who came to him with anger at a friend who had done him an injustice, “Let me tell you a story. I, too, at times, have felt a great hate for those who have taken so much, with no sorrow for what they do. But hate wears you down, and does not hurt your enemy. It is like drinking poison and wishing your enemy would die. I have struggled with these feelings myself many times.”

He continued, “It is as if there are two wolves inside me. One is good and does not harm. He lives in harmony with all around him, and does not take offense when no offense was intended. He will only fight when it is right to do so, and in the right way. But the other wolf is full of anger. The littlest thing will set him into a fit of temper. He fights everyone, all the time, for no reason. He cannot think because his anger and hate are so great. It is helpless anger, for his anger will change nothing.”

“Sometimes, it is hard to live with these two wolves inside me, for both of them try to dominate my spirit.”

The boy looked intently into his Grandfather’s eyes and asked, “Which one wins, Grandfather?”

The Grandfather smiled and quietly said, “The one I feed.”

A Tale of Two Wolves, from a Cherokee legend as re-told in The Mindful Mood Management Workbook by Charlton Hall

Thinking Wolf and Sensing Wolf

The more energy we spend on sensing, the less energy we have to spend on thinking. Based on the tale of two wolves above, we could see the two wolves as “thinking wolf” and “sensing wolf.” The more energy you give to the sensing wolf, the less energy you give to the thinking wolf. The less energy the thinking wolf receives, the weaker the thinking wolf becomes. Conversely, the more energy the sensing wolf receives, the stronger the sensing wolf becomes. By shifting from thinking to sensing, you’re not trying to ‘kill’ the thinking wolf. You’re not engaging in doing by trying to make the thinking wolf go away. You’re simply depriving it of energy so that it may eventually go away on its own. Even if it doesn’t go away on its own, you’re not focusing your attention on it. Since your attention isn’t on it, thinking wolf can’t grab you by the throat, refusing to let go.

The Wolf You Feed

It could be said that focusing on what your senses are telling you is a type of thinking as well, and that is partially true; however, the difference is that focusing on what your senses are telling you is a type of thinking devoid of emotional content. If you’re in a thinking cycle that is causing you anxiety or depression, then anxiety and depression are emotions. But unless you hate trees for some reason, simply sitting quietly in a forest and observing a tree as if you are an artist about to draw that tree is an exercise devoid of emotional content. By focusing on the emotionally neutral stimuli found in nature, we allow ourselves to feed the sensing wolf.

How Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy Helps Nurture the Sensing Wolf Over the Thinking Wolf

The metaphor of the two wolves offers a useful way to understand the tension between present-moment awareness and the mental habits that fuel anxiety, stress, and depression. The “sensing wolf” represents the part of us that experiences life directly through the five senses, grounded in what is happening here and now. The “thinking wolf,” on the other hand, is the part of the mind that ruminates, analyzes, spirals into what-ifs, and fixates on problems. Both wolves have value, but in many people, the thinking wolf grows overfed, dominating the internal landscape with worry and mental noise. Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy creates conditions that allow the sensing wolf to regain strength, balance, and presence, shifting the center of gravity away from constant mental churn.

Natural Environments Favor the Sensing Wolf

One reason this works so well is that natural environments naturally favor the sensing wolf. When someone steps outdoors into a wooded area, a park, a shoreline, or even a garden, the sensory field becomes richer and more inviting than the world of internal rumination. Leaves move in the breeze, sunlight flickers, birds call, water flows, and colors shift. The brain is gently nudged toward sensory engagement, which quiets the internal monologue that the thinking wolf thrives on. In this state, attention moves from the world of thoughts to the world of direct experience. This transition alone can reduce stress and interrupt the cycles that reinforce anxiety and depression.

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy builds on this natural shift by offering structured practices that actively engage the sensing wolf. Techniques like mindful walking, breath awareness in natural settings, sensory-focused grounding, and observation of ecological patterns encourage participants to connect deeply with what is happening in the moment. When the senses are occupied and awake, the thinking wolf loses some of its grip. Rumination is harder to maintain while noticing the texture of a stone, the temperature of the air, or the scent of pine needles. Over time, this repeated redirection strengthens neural pathways associated with presence rather than worry.

Chilling Out with the Sensing Wolf

Another benefit of nurturing the sensing wolf is the way ecotherapy interacts with the body’s stress physiology. Rumination activates the sympathetic nervous system, keeping the body stuck in low-grade fight-or-flight. Sensory engagement, particularly in nature, stimulates the parasympathetic system, which promotes calm, digestion, and restoration. As the body calms, the mind follows. When the nervous system shifts into balance, the sensing wolf becomes easier to access, and the thinking wolf becomes less dominant. This physiological support is one of the reasons nature-based mindfulness is such a potent intervention for chronic stress and mood challenges.

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy also provides a corrective to the thinking wolf’s habit of interpreting thoughts as facts. When individuals practice noticing sensations without judgment, they simultaneously learn to observe thoughts with the same attitude. Thoughts become passing mental events rather than urgent demands for action or attention. This distances the self from the thinking wolf’s tendency to catastrophize or rehearse negative narratives. Instead of wrestling with thoughts, participants learn to acknowledge them and return to sensory experience, strengthening the sensing wolf through repetition and compassion.

Sensing Wolf and Connection

Finally, ecotherapy nurtures the sensing wolf by cultivating connection—connection to nature, to the present moment, and ultimately to one’s own internal experience. The thinking wolf often thrives in isolation, spinning stories without grounding in the wider world. The sensing wolf grows stronger when individuals feel part of a larger ecosystem, rooted and supported by the living environment around them. This sense of belonging reduces the vulnerability that fuels rumination and helps reinforce emotional resilience.

By feeding the sensing wolf through mindfulness-based experiences in nature, individuals create healthier internal balance. The thinking wolf does not disappear, but it no longer runs the entire show. Over time, present-moment awareness becomes more accessible, anxiety decreases, and emotional well-being improves. This is the core strength of Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy: teaching people how to live more fully in the present while gently quieting the mental habits that keep them trapped in stress.

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Being Mode, Doing Mode and Two Powerful Wolves

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Being Mode is where we make a change in our lives. A key aspect of mindfulness is stepping outside of doing mode and entering into being mode.

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When we’re caught up in thought and feeling cycles that lead to depression and anxiety, we usually feel that we should be doing something to fix it. The problem with this is that sometimes there is nothing you can do to fix a problem. Mindfulness is a way to escape this cycle of trying to fix things by simply focusing on our moment-to-moment experience. When we are doing this, we are in being mode. In being mode, we are not trying to fix anything. We are not trying to go anywhere. We are not trying to do anything. We are not trying, period. Trying is doing, and being mode isn’t about doing.

Being Mode and the Downstairs Brain

In being mode, we are free to enjoy our experiences from moment to moment by focusing on what our senses are telling us, rather than focusing on trying to find a way out of a problem. When the downstairs brain is engaged, and the upstairs brain is temporarily disconnected, moving into being mode allows us a little breathing room.

The way to move from doing mode to being mode is to shift our mental energy from thinking mode to sensing mode. Our brains only have a finite amount of energy to spend on any given task at any given time. If we have a stressful or depressing thought cycle going on, we can shift energy from what our thoughts are telling us by engaging our internal observer to start focusing on what our senses are telling us. As you read this paragraph, can you feel your breath going in and out of your lungs? Were you even aware you were breathing before you read the previous sentence? When caught up in thinking cycles, we’re focusing on the boomerang. But by shifting our attention to our direct experiences and focusing on what our senses are telling us, we’re able to move into sensing mode.

Sensing Mode: The Way to Being Mode

When in sensing mode, we are no longer giving energy to ruminating cycles that are leading us to states that we do not want to experience. We are able to move to sensing mode by focusing first on our breathing, then on our direct experiences of the current situation. We do this by using all of our senses, in the moment, to explore the environment around us. What do we hear? What do we see? What do we smell? What do we taste? What do we feel? By asking ourselves these questions, we are able to move into sensing mode.

Two Wolves: The Being Wolf

The more energy we spend on sensing, the less energy we have to spend on thinking. Based on the tale of two wolves, we could see the two wolves as “thinking wolf” and “sensing wolf.” The more energy you give to the sensing wolf, the less energy you give to the thinking wolf. The less energy the thinking wolf receives, the weaker the thinking wolf becomes. Conversely, the more energy the sensing wolf receives, the stronger the sensing wolf becomes. By shifting from thinking to sensing, you’re not trying to ‘kill’ the thinking wolf. You’re not engaging in doing by trying to make the thinking wolf go away. You’re simply depriving it of energy so that it may eventually go away on its own. Even if it doesn’t go away on its own, you’re not focusing your attention on it. Since your attention isn’t on it, thinking wolf can’t grab you by the throat, refusing to let go.

It could be said that focusing on what your senses are telling you is a type of thinking as well, and that is partially true; however, the difference is that focusing on what your senses are telling you is a type of thinking devoid of emotional content. If you’re in a thinking cycle that is causing you anxiety or depression, then anxiety and depression are emotions. But unless you hate trees for some reason, simply sitting quietly in a forest and observing a tree as if you are an artist about to draw that tree is an exercise devoid of emotional content. By focusing on the emotionally neutral stimuli found in nature, we give ourselves the opportunity to feed the sensing wolf.

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy and Being Mode

Mindfulness-based ecotherapy can be a powerful tool for facilitating being mode. By combining mindful awareness with direct engagement in natural environments, this approach gently redirects attention away from the habitual “doing mode,” which is dominated by planning, problem-solving, and ruminating.

Nature’s rhythms, such as the sound of leaves rustling, water flowing, or birds singing, provide sensory anchors that draw the mind into immediate experience. Through guided practices like mindful walking, focused breathing outdoors, or reflective observation of natural phenomena, we learn to notice thoughts and emotions without automatically reacting, creating space for a deeper sense of presence. Over time, repeated experiences of this mindful immersion in the environment can quiet your sympathetic nervous system, lower stress, and cultivate an enduring capacity to remain in being mode even outside of therapeutic sessions.

References

Ilomäki M, Lindblom J, Salmela V, Flykt M, Vänskä M, Salmi J, Tolonen T, Alho K, Punamäki RL, Wikman P. Early life stress is associated with the default mode and fronto-limbic network connectivity among young adults. Front Behav Neurosci. 2022 Sep 23;16:958580. doi: 10.3389/fnbeh.2022.958580. PMID: 36212193; PMCID: PMC9537946.

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Upstairs Brain vs. Downstairs Brain

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Feelings of depression, anxiety, sadness, and other emotions are generated in a part of the brain called the limbic system. This ‘downstairs’ portion of the brain is only interested in three things: Fighting, fleeing, or freezing. In ‘fight’ mode, the downstairs brain wants to protect you from harm by fighting against the threat. When it is triggered, your heart may race, your palms may get sweaty, and you may have a sharp increase in irritability and anger. In ‘flee’ mode, you may experience a similar adrenaline rush, but in this instance, your brain is preparing your body to run away from the danger. In ‘freeze’ mode, we tend to retreat inside ourselves. This is the deer-in-the-headlights feeling of “If I’m very quiet and still, the bad thing won’t see me.”

How the Upstairs Brain Interacts with the Downstairs Brain

Whether you’re in fight, flee, or freeze mode, your downstairs brain is preparing you to deal with a real or perceived threat in the only way it knows how. When your downstairs brain is engaged, the upstairs part of your brain tends to get overwhelmed. The upstairs brain, which consists of the neocortex of the brain, is the part responsible for thinking things through, figuring things out, and solving problems. When the downstairs brain takes over, the upstairs brain is out to lunch. That’s why when you’re emotionally overwhelmed, it is nearly impossible to figure out a way to deal with it. The upstairs brain is all about finding solutions to problems, but the downstairs brain is all about fighting, fleeing, or freezing. When your upstairs brain is overwhelmed, thinking things over isn’t going to work. That’s because at that point, your downstairs brain is in charge. For those times when your downstairs brain is running the show, mindfulness is a way of disengaging from the thinking cycle for a while so that you can re-center yourself and reconnect with yourself and the world around you.

How Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy Supports the Upstairs Brain, the Downstairs Brain, and a Calmer Nervous System

The “upstairs brain vs. downstairs brain” model offers a simple way to understand how our minds react to stress. The “downstairs brain” refers to evolutionarily older structures such as the amygdala, brain stem, and limbic regions. These areas handle survival instincts, fight-or-flight responses, and quick emotional reactions. The “upstairs brain” includes the prefrontal cortex and other regions responsible for reasoning, emotional regulation, empathy, and long-term decision-making. In moments of stress, the sympathetic nervous system activates the downstairs brain, often overwhelming the upstairs brain’s ability to respond calmly. This imbalance can lead to impulsive reactions, emotional flooding, or a sense of being perpetually on edge.

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy: A Practical Solution

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy offers a practical, grounded way to restore balance between these two systems. By integrating mindfulness practices with nature-based experiences, it supports regulation of the sympathetic nervous system while strengthening the upstairs brain’s capacity to stay engaged even during difficult moments.

One of the most powerful aspects of nature-based mindfulness is how quickly it downshifts the nervous system. Being outdoors, or even visualizing natural environments, has been shown to reduce sympathetic arousal and increase activity in the parasympathetic system. This shift creates the physiological conditions necessary for the upstairs brain to come back online. When the body stops signaling danger, the prefrontal cortex is freed to resume its role in planning, reflection, and problem-solving. Mindfulness in nature makes this transition smoother by encouraging sensory awareness, present-moment attention, and slower breathing, each of which directly supports parasympathetic activation.

How Mindfulness Trains Attention

Another key component is how mindfulness trains attention. The downstairs brain often hijacks the mind by pulling attention toward perceived threats. Mindfulness practice teaches individuals to notice this pull without automatically following it. In ecotherapy, this awareness is supported by grounding elements: the texture of tree bark, the rhythm of waves, and the sound of wind through leaves. These sensory anchors provide a natural counterweight to the internal storm generated by the sympathetic nervous system. Over time, this helps strengthen neural pathways associated with emotional regulation, making it easier for the upstairs brain to remain active even when the downstairs brain fires up.

Interoceptive Literacy and the Upstairs Brain

Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy also promotes what some therapists refer to as “interoceptive literacy,” the ability to recognize and interpret internal body signals. A dysregulated sympathetic system often produces sensations such as a tight chest, rapid heartbeat, or restlessness. When people learn to identify these early cues without judgment, they gain a moment of choice. This pause allows the upstairs brain to intervene before the downstairs brain drives behavior. Practices like mindful walking, breath-based grounding, or observing natural cycles help individuals connect more deeply with these signals in a supportive, non-threatening environment.

Emotional Processing and the Upstairs Brain

Nature-based mindfulness also supports emotional processing. The downstairs brain often stores unresolved emotional material that surfaces during stress. Natural environments provide a calming backdrop for working through these experiences without becoming overwhelmed. The sense of spaciousness and the absence of artificial stimuli reduce cognitive load, giving the upstairs brain more bandwidth to integrate emotional information. This creates a more flexible, resilient nervous system that can adapt to challenges rather than reacting automatically.

Connectedness and the Upstairs Brain

Finally, Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy strengthens the sense of connectedness that is crucial for nervous system regulation. Feelings of isolation can intensify sympathetic activation, while experiences of belonging and connection activate systems of safety and social engagement. Ecotherapy offers a double form of connection: with nature and with one’s own internal experience. This sense of being part of something larger reduces the perception of threat and supports long-term regulation of both the upstairs and downstairs brain.

In this way, Mindfulness-Based Ecotherapy provides a holistic path to balancing instinctive emotional responses with thoughtful, grounded awareness. By soothing the sympathetic nervous system and strengthening the upstairs brain, it helps people respond to life’s challenges with clarity, resilience, and a greater sense of peace.

References

Jo H, Song C, Miyazaki Y. Physiological Benefits of Viewing Nature: A Systematic Review of Indoor Experiments. Int J Environ Res Public Health. 2019 Nov 27;16(23):4739. doi: 10.3390/ijerph16234739. PMID: 31783531; PMCID: PMC6926748.

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